By the time your baby is born they will already have learnt to recognise the voices of loved ones. They will already know the difference between;
- Feeling good – when you feel happy and relaxed
- Feeling bad – when you feel upset or worried.
Your baby is learning about feelings. They are learning to recognise who makes them feel safe and secure and who makes them feel worried or scared.
At about 18 weeks into pregnancy your baby begins to be able to hear the sounds in the womb like your heart beating or rumbling tummy. From then they will begin to pick out familiar sounds from outside the womb – starting with their mum’s voice and then other familiar adults such as; another parent, partners, brothers or sisters. They have a lot of ’sound proofing’ and can hear things at about half the volume we are hearing at.
Give your baby lots of opportunity to hear loved ones voices by talking, reading and singing to them. It is a good way to help them develop their new skills and get ready to meet you all.
By the time you are 26 to 28 weeks pregnant your baby will respond to voices they know and tunes that they hear. This is so good for your baby;
- They can be reassured by familiar sounds once they are born
- They already have a bond with their loved ones to build on.
We know that it is really important unborn babies are around healthy relationships as they can feel frightened by shouting and angry voices. They are affected by any stress or upset their mum goes through.