It can be frightening to discover that your child or young person has been seeing or hearing things that don't appear to be real. 'Hallucinations' are when a person hears, sees, smells, tastes or feels things that appear to be real but only exist in their mind.
Seeing and hearing things can be a sign of an underlying illness, or can be caused by a stressful event, like losing a close friend or relative. It can also be the result of a physical illness like an infection, a reaction to drugs or part of a mental illness.
Hallucinations
Hallucinations are where children or young people hear, see, smell, taste or feel things that appear to be real but only exist in their minds. They might:
Hallucinations can make you feel nervous, paranoid and frightened, so it's important to be with someone you can trust. These unusual sensory experiences can appear out of nowhere, but on most occasions can be linked to physical illness. Hallucinations can sometimes occur as a side effect of taking drugs or be a symptom of a more serious mental health condition.
Causes Of Hallucinations
Seeing and hearing things can be caused by a number of reasons. The symptoms can be temporary and come on for no obvious reason, which makes it hard to know why sometimes. They can happen if you have migraines, a high temperature or just as you wake up or fall asleep.
Common causes for hallucinations are:
After having a baby some parents can experience hallucinations as part of postpartum psychosis.
Talking About Hallucinations
As a parent, it can feel confusing when young people experience seeing or hearing things that aren't real. Your child or teenager may be feeling scared, so it's important to let them communicate their feelings to you in a safe and non-judgemental way.
Explore the young person's experience
Let them talk to you about their experience. If they don't feel they can explain to you, they could try drawing or writing a journal to be able to express their feelings.
Don't assume the visions or voices are problematic
Not all hallucinations are upsetting. Quite often children and young people see or hear things which comfort them.
Try to contain your own feelings
Although you may be worried and upset, try to remain calm and measured when you talk to your child about their experience.
Offer a safe space to talk and listen
Try to listen without judgement and create a space that your child feels comfortable in.
It's important to reassure your child that they are not the only one dealing with this and that hundreds of children seek support and treatment for hallucinations every year.
We would recommend seeking medical advice from your GP to discuss these symptoms and explore any underlying cause. This can offer your child reassurance and let them know they are on the right track to being treated.
Keeping busy and practicing mindfulness can both be useful ways to cope. You could suggest they try:
If your child or teenager is frequently seeing or hearing things, we would recommend booking an appointment to discuss these symptoms with their GP to understand any underlying causes.
You may be advised to support your child or teen in keeping a diary, which can be a really useful tool to give healthcare professionals some insight into how they have been feeling. It also helps to keep track of how they are sleeping, if they have been drinking alcohol or using drugs, and whether they have experienced any other symptoms like low mood, increased stress, anxiety or loneliness.
There are mental health service helplines available for parents to discuss any worries about their children including:
Young Minds Parents Helpline - Call 0808 802 5544 for free Mon-Fri from 9.30am to 4pm
For 24/7 immediate advice, support and signposting for people with mental health difficulties please contact 111 and select the mental health option. You can also text SHOUT to 85258. You can also contact your GP, who can help you access support.
If someone’s life is at risk or they cannot be kept safe, call 999 or go to A&E.
For 10 to 18-year-olds, Kooth is a free, confidential and safe way to receive online counselling, advice and emotional well-being support.
Childline - Children and young people under 19 can call 0800 1111 for free support.
Young Minds Parents Helpline - Call 0808 802 5544 for free Mon-Fri from 9.30am to 4pm.
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