Organising ourselves is a skill many take for granted but for some children this can be challenging, causing frustration, confusion and an impact on their self-esteem. While it can take until adulthood for executive functioning skills to fully develop, neurodivergent young people may experience additional differences in the way they plan, organise and execute tasks.
A child who struggles and does not get the support and understanding to practice and put in place strategies can lead to difficulties at school, with their friends and in day-to-day life. This can impact them reaching independence and making plans for the future.
Tasks such as organising your school bag so you have everything ready for all your classes the next day, or remembering when to hand in your homework can be tricky. By recognising these difficulties, and putting in place strategies and structures, your child can be supported to keep on task and become more independent.
Recognising Organisational Difficulties
Some questions you might like to ask yourself to find out if your child has differences with their executive function include:
Neurodivergent conditions can have an impact on a young person's executive function. Executive functioning essentially deals with the ability to plan and carry out tasks, and how we organise our lives.
The way your child's brain should plan and carry out tasks can be split roughly around 6 functions, including:
To apply this to a real-world task, you could look at the steps to posting a birthday card:
For some neurodivergent children, some of these stages can be overwhelming, or they might get stuck at stage one. To understand the effect this can have on your child's life it can be useful to think about some of the tasks your child has to do at home or in school and apply these steps.
What Can Help Organisation at Home?
Once you begin to understand how your child's executive function can have an effect on day-to-day tasks, it can make it easier to understand how to support them, both at home and at school. Some helpful strategies to try at home could include:
How to Support Organisation at School?
It can be helpful to contact your child's teacher or speak to the school special educational needs and disabilities coordinator (SENDCo) to discuss any concerns you have about your child's organisation skills. They may be able to suggest some support, which could include:
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We've been working together in Norfolk and Waveney with families and professionals to put together information, advice and resources that are helpful to families. Let us know what you think, and anything we could change or add to make it even better.
If you live in Norfolk
You can contact the Healthy Child Service team by calling Just One Number on 0300 300 0123 or texting Parentline on 07520 631590. Our opening hours are 8am-6pm Monday-Friday (excluding bank holidays) and 9am-1pm on Saturdays.
If you are 11-19 you can text ChatHealth on 07480 635060 for confidential advice from one of our team.
If you live in Waveney
Norfolk SEND Local Offer provide information and advice on services for young people with additional needs in Norfolk.
Suffolk SEND Local Offer provide information and advice on services for young people with additional needs in Waveney.
Mencap is a national charity who support people with learning disabilities. They offer a free Learning Disability Helpline with advice and guidance. Call 0808 808 1111 to speak to a trained professional.
Kooth offers online counselling, advice and emotional well-being support for anyone aged 10-18, seven days a week until 10pm.