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Organisational Skills (Executive Function)

Organising ourselves is a skill many take for granted but for some children this can be challenging, causing frustration, confusion and an impact on their self-esteem. While it can take until adulthood for executive functioning skills to fully develop, neurodivergent young people may experience additional differences in the way they plan, organise and execute tasks. 

A child who struggles and does not get the support and understanding to practice and put in place strategies can lead to difficulties at school, with their friends and in day-to-day life. This can impact them reaching independence and making plans for the future. 

Tasks such as organising your school bag so you have everything ready for all your classes the next day, or remembering when to hand in your homework can be tricky. By recognising these difficulties, and putting in place strategies and structures, your child can be supported to keep on task and become more independent.

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Recognising Organisational Difficulties

Some questions you might like to ask yourself to find out if your child has differences with their executive function include:

  • Does your child understand and work to time frames?
  • Have they got all they need for school or do they regularly forget things?
  • Are they able to start a task or do they need lots of prompts and reminders?
  • Are they easily distracted?
  • Do they lose things a lot?
  • Find it difficult to follow logical patterns?

What is Executive Function?

Neurodivergent conditions can have an impact on a young person's executive function. Executive functioning essentially deals with the ability to plan and carry out tasks, and how we organise our lives. 

The way your child's brain should plan and carry out tasks can be split roughly around 6 functions, including: 

  • Organising - What do I need to carry out this task?
  • Prioritising - In what order do I need to do these steps in?
  • Remembering - How did I do this last time?
  • Execution - Let's do this thing!
  • Flexibility - Could this be done differently?
  • Self-Checking - Did I do this right?

To apply this to a real-world task, you could look at the steps to posting a birthday card:

  1. Organising - What do I need to carry out the task? A birthday card, pen, address book, stamp, and post box. 
  2. Prioritizing - In what order do I need to do things? Buy the card, think of what to write, write in the card, find the address, write on the envelope, buy a stamp, travel to a post box, and post the card. 
  3. Remembering - How did I do this last time? Find the address book, work out the date it needs to arrive by, and where is the post box. When do I need to post it?
  4. Execution - Let's do this thing. Try not to forget, try not to get distracted, find the time to go shopping, and find time to get to the postbox before the last collection. 
  5. Flexibility - Could this be done differently? Could I buy lots of birthday cards and stamps all at once? Could I set a reminder on my phone? Could I set up an e-card account? 
  6. Self-Checking - Did I do it right? Was the card posted on time? Did it go to the right address? Was it stressful posting the card?

For some neurodivergent children, some of these stages can be overwhelming, or they might get stuck at stage one. To understand the effect this can have on your child's life it can be useful to think about some of the tasks your child has to do at home or in school and apply these steps. 

What Can Help Organisation at Home?

Once you begin to understand how your child's executive function can have an effect on day-to-day tasks, it can make it easier to understand how to support them, both at home and at school. Some helpful strategies to try at home could include:

  • Trying to keep regular routines. Learning takes time so doing the same tasks often will help your child remember and organise
  • Break down big tasks into smaller parts and help them prioritise things which need to be done first
  • Ask your child to repeat instructions back to you
  • Try working backwards – if your child is struggling to start a task, start at the end and do the steps backwards
  • Work together and talk about the stages of the task, for example, cook together. This is a great task to teach the following stages. Start with making the list, go shopping and then follow the step-by-step cooking instructions
  • Use a whiteboard or chalkboard to write a diary/notes to remember and help your child to make to-do lists or use a scheduling or diary app on their phone
  • Try organising their bedrooms using coloured boxes/containers. Let them help and choose a place for their different items
  • Try giving chores which require sorting and ordering. For example, grocery shopping, sorting out holiday pictures into an album, organising the airing cupboard and group items, emptying the dishwasher or putting items away in the correct places

How to Support Organisation at School?

It can be helpful to contact your child's teacher or speak to the school special educational needs and disabilities coordinator (SENDCo) to discuss any concerns you have about your child's organisation skills. They may be able to suggest some support, which could include:

  • Your child may need written instructions to help remind them – try to bullet point a list or just word prompts or a picture. This could be printed out and kept in their pencil case or pocket to refer to.
  • Cue cards can be used to break down the sequence of activities. For example, clear the desk, collect equipment needed, put the date at the top of the page.
  • Visual timetables.
  • Colour coordination of timetable and school books.
  • Transparent purses and pencil cases let them see the contents easily.
  • Ensure they finish one task before starting another.
  • Your child may find attending homework clubs useful.

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Who Can Help?

If you live in Norfolk

  • You can contact the Healthy Child Service team by calling Just One Number on 0300 300 0123 or texting Parentline on 07520 631590. Our opening hours are 8am-6pm Monday-Friday (excluding bank holidays) and 9am-1pm on Saturdays.

  • If you are 11-19 you can text ChatHealth on 07480 635060 for confidential advice from one of our team.

If you live in Waveney

Norfolk SEND Local Offer provide information and advice on services for young people with additional needs in Norfolk.

Suffolk SEND Local Offer provide information and advice on services for young people with additional needs in Waveney.

Mencap is a national charity who support people with learning disabilities. They offer a free Learning Disability Helpline with advice and guidance. Call 0808 808 1111 to speak to a trained professional.

Kooth offers online counselling, advice and emotional well-being support for anyone aged 10-18, seven days a week until 10pm. 

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